so this is going to be a crazy post. a little emotional,a little back to memory lane and probably a little boring. BUT its for one of my sweetest and most adorablest buddies.. and needless to say i Love him alot and this is stupid but his going away for such a long period is making me a little emotional...Wee.Ess and me share a funny relation.. we fight,get irritated,yell,argue and probably i've had most of my 'life-altering' (if i may say) decisions being discussed with him.. and that is because i trust him with all my heart.. I want to keep this post untitled because Wee.Ess cannot be given a title as such... His going away across the seven seas (or however number of seas you cross on your way to the U.S of A) has brought back memories of people who have moved away with time.
okay,so i think this post is going to be for Connor,Mia,Jayesh,Adrian,Thapa (R.I.P) , A.J,Nisha,Arudhra,Andre,Jeremy,Jason,Joshua,Vanessa (Bugger V) and the gazillion other people who are so close to me and have left the country for better lives elsewhere.. each drop and pick to the 'International' airport , night outs,fights,intense Convo's,dance and drink parties and to all the insanity (specially missing flights :D ) i miss you all a whole lot! beautiful memories which are cherished...
Wee.Ess............... i just hope he comes back soon... it sucks to have no one to talk to and hear you out..
i think am going to scoot and try the 'two-sides-to-a-coin theory' ... but then it cant be applied to best friends. cuz you just have no other alternative for them...
Reading Gurcharan Das' 'India Unbound' - amazing writer,keeps you glued to the book.. it's probably the first non fiction book i have not given up on.. enjoying every chapter.. I think am going to borrow 'Butter Chicken in Ludhiana' from 'Guy'.. i really doubt he's read it..
to Vanilla Ice Cream and a busy weekend... Cheers!
"All I'm writing is just what I feel, that's all. I just keep it almost naked. And probably the words are so bland." ~ Jimi Hendrix
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Monday, September 22, 2008
two sides to a coin theory
Why is it that when we want something the most... we have to be patient for it and when we get it we never seem to be happy with it? does everything in life come with a complaint form?
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okay so Rugrat and me finally got to meet up and the discussion on the 'every coin has two sides to it' was in progress.. unfortunately had to leave it midway cuz her 'pati' called ;) .. BUT i did get to put it to practise saturday night..and to be honest it did work..
so the two sides to a coin theory is whenever something good or bad happens..it is always upto us to choose what how we deal with the situation.. saturday night with a lil misunderstandings and a few painful people around to rub harshness in,i decided to walk out and not ruin people's saturday night plans.. that left me with little or almost nothing to do on a saturday night. In a really mad temper , while heading towards the metro station..rugrats convo replayed in my mind and thats when i decided - the incident which happened wasnt good BUT i could either go home and sulk the rest of the evening or clear the trash in my mind and do something fun, alone OR with friends.. i chose alone. and it definitely cheered me up. A whole lot! also, chanced upon a meeting with Maverick and had a wonderful discussion on the quarter life and got a lot of meaningful thoughts.. over coffee..
so yeah.. i think two sides to a coin theory helps.. unless your with 'pati' or bf (best friends) ;) you can't try it.
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Dear God,
anger management lessons are getting a little too much.. could we have a fewer number of lessons please.. am beginning to lose my cool.. Help!
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okay so Rugrat and me finally got to meet up and the discussion on the 'every coin has two sides to it' was in progress.. unfortunately had to leave it midway cuz her 'pati' called ;) .. BUT i did get to put it to practise saturday night..and to be honest it did work..
so the two sides to a coin theory is whenever something good or bad happens..it is always upto us to choose what how we deal with the situation.. saturday night with a lil misunderstandings and a few painful people around to rub harshness in,i decided to walk out and not ruin people's saturday night plans.. that left me with little or almost nothing to do on a saturday night. In a really mad temper , while heading towards the metro station..rugrats convo replayed in my mind and thats when i decided - the incident which happened wasnt good BUT i could either go home and sulk the rest of the evening or clear the trash in my mind and do something fun, alone OR with friends.. i chose alone. and it definitely cheered me up. A whole lot! also, chanced upon a meeting with Maverick and had a wonderful discussion on the quarter life and got a lot of meaningful thoughts.. over coffee..
so yeah.. i think two sides to a coin theory helps.. unless your with 'pati' or bf (best friends) ;) you can't try it.
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Dear God,
anger management lessons are getting a little too much.. could we have a fewer number of lessons please.. am beginning to lose my cool.. Help!
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